This morning I woke up and started mama's memory page. Here is the link: http://elainealwaysinourheart.blogspot.com/.
Like I say....it is only the start. I got a bit side tracked because I read her other two blogs.... the one of her memories and the one we started in 2007. It sure says how she was waiting and just living to be with Jesus and dad again. It comforted me.
I called my Aunt Lorraine. I needed to see how she was doing. Mom would want me to do it. I just called her again. She is stronger than anyone gives her credit for. She is so glad mom is where she wanted to go....and is pain free. She is thinking of mom more than herself. Those sisters did that! Now she is second guessing whether she should have came out to see her this last time or not. I told her it was the best thing for mom to see her sister. No regrets.
Friday morning Libby, Lois, Tara and Karla came over and we made some plans regarding mom. Doug called a few times and we got some input. Doug and Libby talked with the Funeral home. I talked with Pastor Joel and Pastor Sabin regarding the service. Karla and Tara came over too... they were put in charge of the food for the gathering after the service downstairs at the church. They got ahold of Meghan and Amanda who are in charge of the flowers and centerpieces. I tell ya, my girls are incredible. My family is incredible. I don't know what I would do without them!!! Libby's husband Kevin brought Lois, me and Libby each a bouquet... here is mine!
Tomorrow we got to mom's church and talk about the service itself. It sounds like the Pastor is in charge of it...he said. The Lutheran's have their own way of doing things. I am hoping he honors mom's request about letting Ron play his guitar and sing some of her favorite songs. I know Pastor Sabin is doing the Eulogy. That is good. Downstairs we want to set up the photo collage for her, the video Karla is making.... and a time for people to say what they want about mom.
Lanny and I took Andrew home this morning and went to mom's. Brought her dishes, freezer food, and photo albums home. I am going through them as soon as I am done here. We should have her place cleaned out by the end of the week. I took a coat of hers for Aunt Lorraine. I think she would like that.... and maybe some other clothes. We'll have to see.
People have been amazing!!! Especially my blogger sisters and their prayers, love and gift of flowers! I love you all back and feel your hugs!
| I got these beautiful roses from Papa |
| While I was playing with my mom's hair in the hospital... I asked for a lock and Lois and I both got one. I loved her hair. |
| The sunrise Thursday morning from the bridge. |
| Lauren's 2nd day of school....the night after seeing Taylor Swift! |
| This cool site from the bus stop! Amazing! I had no idea what the end of my day was going to be back that morning.... God must have been showing me His glory! |
Well.... going to go look at pictures. Love to all and I cannot thank you enough!!!
1 comment:
Oh my friend, as the old saying goes... been there, done that! I understand ALL of what you are going thru! I understand that pain in your heart, that need to keep on keeping on and the preparation for the perfect service! I know how much you love your Mama and SO DID SHE! That is the one thing we should all make sure of, if you love someone... make sure they know it!
I am certain that your Mama would not have been at peace if she had not spent that time with Aunt Loraine! I know that was meant to be! I was thinking about you all coming home from Church today! I am SO thankful to remember all of the fun times you all had! Times with Mary, eating out with friends, shopping at Walmart, all of the times you did her medicine and called her! I remember ALL of the times your heart was hurting for her because she missed your Daddy AND then she last her BESTIE Mary! I wish that I had met your precious Mama, hugged her and got to see that sweet smile in person! I will see her in Heaven one day and that SMILE is how I will recognize her!
Love you my friend, but you know that already... I will tell you again and again anyway:) HUGE HUGS and Prayers coming your way!
Post a Comment